Wednesday, September 17, 2008

The Confusion of being "Single"

The other day,seeing my fellow Friend having his arm around his girl friend made me go..,”Should I have one”? And then I thought about its consequences

1. I will have to approach the girl ->Easy
2. I will have to propose to her ->not that easy
3. Make her my official girlfriend ->Easy, after proposing her
4. Talk to her everyday at least 30mins to 1Hour err.. may be more -> ummm......Difficult
5. Ask for 100-200 Rupees more as pocket money everyday -> umm.....Impossible: P

Now may be it won’t be that bad, but these are just some pointers which tells me ----No,Anurag ,This won’t be a Good Idea This surely would be the First Mistake you would make in your so far “"Mistakeless" Life...”

But then when you see the girl set her hair properly in the adjacent seat of the bus you’are travelling in or when you go inside any mall and see a snazzy looking couple enjoying a mc’aloo/chicken Tikki inside McDonalds or when you see a couple going at 100km/hr with the girl holding on kaske to her partner riding the bike,you tend to do…Sigh! Surely,a partner would be nice …But again another question pops up…Will this Detach you from your friends…Will Friendship Suffer?? I guess that depends from Individual to Individual but I think it does if not much but if I am not wrong some strings do come out…..

Ohh well For me Being Single Rocks simply because of the reason I gave in the first Para i.e. the consequences.....Those last 3 pointers scares me honestly.....But probably Things won't be that bad...Guess should give it a try.... what say??.... *Scratches his head *

Listening to :Blue ....Yes Yes Blue ..Guess That's one of the reasons to write this blog

You make me wanna call you in the middle of the night.

You make me wanna hold you till the morning light.

You make me wanna love,

you make me wanna fall.

You make me wanna surrender my soul.

I know this is a feeling that I just cant fight.

Youre the first and last thing on my mind.

You make me wanna love,

you make me wanna fall.

You make me wanna surrender my soul................... Wonder how this made it to my Music Player :O

P.S: Punjabi Music is the perhaps the grooviest music in the World ….Danced…err Guess Grooved would be a better word …like anything at my cousin sister’s wedding …Talk about detachment from your Routine Life…..Everybody needs it actually….You too …Go Get it :P

16 comments:

  1. Heard of "Grass is Always Greener on the other Side"?

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  2. Ha ha!
    well well, so guys don wanna date women coz of reasons like 'money', 'topics to talk about'.....

    and how dumb of me to expect 'the correct person' and 'liking' to be thr in the picture.

    Anyway, w/e anyone might say,
    SINGLEDOM rockksss!
    [and that is coz u can hit on just abt anyone] :-P

    P.S. Trust me dude, the day u meet "her", money, parents, topics, looks..all go secondary! Its just you n its just her :-)

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  3. @ soltaire
    Ohh well...Yes I hv :P

    @ Express
    I wish your P.S is True !!!

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  4. :D

    Someone is all growing up!!!! :D
    Don't get someone because you need to get someone, get someone because you like that someone! :D

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  5. ooppss!!tryin to run hard in oposyt dirctn!!??lets c...to wat date u stick to dez wrds..hop to see da ~("cnfusn of being singl") very soon..:P
    kip going..:)

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  6. ooppss!!tryin to run hard in oposyt dirctn!!??lets c...to wat date u stick to dez wrds..hop to see da ~("cnfusn of being singl") very soon..:P
    kip going..:)

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  7. You know you're hoplessly infactuated when you start associating with pop-love songs.

    T_T

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  8. ^ I agree with solitaire. 100%

    Btw, I like ze blog. = )

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  9. @ anindita
    who told ya that I need to get someone and I don't have or like that "Someone" ;)

    @Stutee
    ohh well....I am sure it ain't gonna be any sooner :)

    @taurius1
    Dat's right...Gee's I am still listening to it you know :D

    @Shrutilaya
    Welcome to moi Space
    and Thankyou zee for commenting :D

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  10. hi there... came by your blog.. it's cool. keep up the good work!
    Chao!!

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  11. Bro I guess you growing up slowly and slowly!!!!! Either it is signs of someone who is falling in love...or signs of someone who is letting people aware he is ready to mingle....

    All the best......

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  12. I've hopped across from Neha's blog and while getting a girlfriend is tough. Why is it so "difficult to talk to her everyday at least 30mins to 1Hour err.. may be more"

    I don't mean to be rude just curious. Cause I've always thought that if you like someone enough to ask them out, shouldn't talking to them be the easiest thing in the world?

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  13. @warmsunshine
    Welcome to my page girl !!!
    and Ty for that....

    @"babul"
    ty bro :P

    @Gentle Whispers
    Firstly,good to see a new face in my blog and a good comment/question too !!!

    It sure would be the easiest thing in the world...100 %Right but I am not talking about communication here....Personally I am a very quite person and moi ain't really sure that a daily tete-a-tete with my gal for that much time would be possible :P...Well as I said...it would be difficult :D
    There's actually a 50 % of humour thr in those 5 lines ....So Chill da :D
    (I am only talking about the telephonic conversation !!! )

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  14. :-) ha!!!

    jus as u say:
    Go Onn ..... Do it !!!!!

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  15. hehe...i agree with u thr...and for me maybe the 5th point comes before the 1st one :)...even i heard tht song some time back...and thts one song that makes u want to be in love.....but ya u shdnt just love someone just for the sake of loving....but that SOMEONE should be special and should make you feel special as well....flirting is a different thing though :D

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  16. Huh...don't go and get a gf just coz someone else has one!!!

    Go and approach someone you really really like, and you feel you could spend time with her...

    Good luck!

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Go Onn ..... Do it !!!!!